Choosing your Bridesmaids

There are no people who have to be in the Wedding Party unless you want them to be. Don't feel pressured by family (or friends) to include people. Choose the ones you are closest to and want to have as a part of the process.

Most people are close to their siblings, especially sisters. If you are close to your sister, she should not only be included, but consider having her as your Maid (or Matron) of Honor. After all, she is your sister and who could be better than her?

After you go through your immediate family, be sure to consider your extended family such as cousins, second cousins, etc. If you are close to your family, and you have only a few female cousins you see often, consider having them all in the wedding. Be sure to think of your Future Husband's side when choosing. If he has a sister, you should consider having her on your side.

Next, go through your list of friends. If you have a lot of friends, be sure to think carefully if you aren't going to include all of them. There are some friends that just aren't responsible enough to be in the Wedding Party.

If you have a guy-friend who is your absolute best friend and you can't imagine getting married without him taking part, he can stand up for you. In fact, it is now acceptable to have a guy stand in place of your Maid (or Matron) of Honor.

Be sure that when you pick, you consider the responsibilities of Bridesmaids. Occassionally, they will have to help monatarily and with decision making. They will also possibly have to help with all the running around looking at flowers, dresses, reception halls, etc.

Happy Choosing!